He is four, and he knows that four is a VERY big deal. He took his birthday very seriously this year. What do four-year-olds eat? What do they wear? How much should they get for their birthdays? These were all questions that he pondered in the lead up to his big day. (He decided four-year-olds eat buttered noodles and wear clothes that say "4" on the tag, and they get LOTS of Hero Factory.) At the end of his special day, he said, "This was my best birthday EVER!"
Evan sagely remarked that that was because he'd only had four birthdays and two of them he couldn't even remember.
But Steffen wasn't the only guy around here to have a birthday. After Steffen's birthday on September 30th, Austin turned two on October 9th, and Carsten finally (he's been talking about his birthday since August) turned six on October 28th. That's right, my three youngest boys have birthdays within a month of each other, and trying to make sure each one had a wonderful day kept us even busier in October than we usually are.
They all thoroughly enjoyed their birthdays this year, despite my failure to invite people over. (I felt terrible when Steffen got up in the morning and said, "So when are all the people coming over?" Next year, buddy.) They did get all their birthday perks, though. I try to let the birthday child have all the choices that sometimes aren't available in a big family. They pick breakfast, lunch, dinner, the Friday night movie. Plus, my kids only get sweet cereal if it's someone's birthday. Much negotiation, bribing, and suggesting goes on before the birthday child finally makes a selection.
Their official "party" was very low-key and combined. It's hard to believe I'm the same mom who used to pull off huge parties. That was another life. Carsten, since he's the oldest, got to pick the venue, so we packed up and headed to the zoo.
There were cupcakes.
Everyone (except for Nathan, who was home sick) had a great day.